Disappearing friends

Awhile ago I talked to an old friend of mine. He's been rejected from his family and only loved by his friends. His attitude changed a lot since I was in a friendly relationship with him. I can't tell if he's still the person I once nounced as my 'best friend'. He told me that he doesn't want to know anything anymore about me and threw me away. It was kind of awkward because it came so suddenly. He wrote me, asking for a meeting and then he threw these words at me. I was confused and a little bit in pain.

A few days ago I got a message from his ex-girlfriend. She asked for my opinion because he's disappeared. She couldn't find him on the internet, he doesn't take any calls or answering short messages, e-mails... and even if she visited his house he was absent!
I began to worry a bit but in the end I told her that she has to wait. There must have been a reason for him to disappear so suddenly. Maybe he needs some breaktime or wants to start something new. I really, really hope for her that she will get in touch with him. Even if I haven't talked for longer than 3 years with him I'm a bit alarmed.

Do you know people who disappear all of a sudden? Without any clue? Did it happen maybe to you too?

I have to say I was the same at one time... and maybe this part of me does still exist within myself. Maybe everyone has this hidden attitude to disappear all of a sudden and start something new. 
I only want to say... well...

Never leave the Ones you really adore, you really love, behind. You could regret it. Maybe not yet but for sure in the future. I still regret some parts of my past... but accepted it. I promised myself that those things would never happen again and they won't. Why am I so certain about it?

Everything starts with a loss and ends with a new beginning. The loss may weight the world but with time it would be easier to carry.

Keep on Smiling